Here is a fascinating interview that aired on public radio in San Diego, CA. It discusses the effects of repeated deployments on service members and their families. MAUREEN CAVANAUGH (Host): I’m Maureen Cavanaugh. You’re listening to These Days on KPBS. Being sent overseas to a war zone as part of America’s volunteer military is a […]

This is a re-post from a Blog called Daily Dwellings. Monica is the wife of an Army Chaplain who is currently deployed to Iraq. Military marriages are hard. They take a certain amount of extra work because of special circumstances that arise because of being a part of the military. The major special circumstance that […]

Right before deployment I tend to struggle with how to spend time with my husband prior to him leaving. Especially if we weren’t given much time to prepare – like this next deployment that is coming up fast. I work full time and my husband’s schedule tends to get crazy preparing for their deployment so […]

Here’s a post from an Army wife that is nervous about redeployment – I’ve certainly been there! You can read her blog here. We got our first “re-deployment” email today. And, I have to tell you, it’s kind of crazy. Don’t get me wrong, I am totally 100% excited that my husband will finally be […]

This week my husband called me at work and said he had the career opportunity of a lifetime to be 2nd in command on an important mission. He was going to be deployed about 3 months; however, he had the opportunity to decline this mission since he hasn’t been home from his last deployment for […]

Here’s a nice post from a wife going through her husband’s 6 month Air Force Deployment. You can read her blog here. Dear Me, There is something I am afraid of… I am terribly afraid that I will get use to living without Daniel. I am scared that the sting of being apart will lessen […]

When you become a military wife or significant other you quickly learn there is nothing that could prepare you for this new role. About 4.5 years ago, I had a rather shocking initiation becoming a Marine Corps wife. After Mike came home from a 3-month deployment to Afghanistan, he proposed to me. We were so […]

I found a couple of things today that might have eased the pain of deployment just a little bit…   #1. The Husband Pillow. I know, I know, this thing has been around forever…. but it certainly takes on new significance for  anyone facing a year of sleeping alone! I love that this one has an actual […]

I read an interesting blog post today on the difference between unfounded worry and legitimate concern. Wow! It was eye-opening…. and I wish I’d read it during Paul’s deployment! While Paul was in Afghanistan, I was a nervous wreck. I spent many sleepless nights and many afternoons unfocused and aimless in my life. I did […]

By Walter Pincus / The Washington Post Outside the military, not much attention is paid to the personal problems of families caught up in the endless rotational deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan that mark serving in the Army, Navy, Air Force and Marines. Last Friday, Defense Secretary Robert M. Gates dealt with a handful of […]